This blog exists to share Chris and Dora Barbee's ministry experiences, both state-side and in our ministry in Thailand, with all of our friends and family.
Thursday, April 1, 2010
Language and Protests and Dogs Riding Motorcycles
jai yen: "jai" means heart and "yen" means "cool"--the words together mean to relax or calm down--literally to have a "cool heart"
khit tung: these words mean to miss someone--literally, "my thoughts go to...."
khonglen: toys--literally, "play stuff"
khongchai: utensils--literally, "stuff you use"
khruang don drii: musical instrument--literally, "music machine"
phuut maak: talkative--literally, "talks a lot"
thong dun: having diarrhea--literally, "stomach walks"
phuut len: joking--literally, "speak play"
raan khai yaa: pharmacy--literally, the "shop (that) sells medicine"
khaw thow: ankle--literally, the "neck (of the) foot"
rote payabaan: ambulance--literally, the "hospital car"
fuuk ngaan: internship--literally, "practice work"
phaw: father meh: mother phawmeh: parents
hua naa: boss--literally, "head face"
hong nong len: living room--literally, the "room for sitting and playing"
Here's a picture of each of our Thai writing notebooks:
I would translate for you, but I'm not sure that anyone is really interested....but at least you can see that we can write in Thai (and for the most part, these sentences are correct!!!)
Also, many of you may have heard about the protests that have been going on in Bangkok. So far, everything has been pretty peaceful, but we did see this going down the street next to our language school one day:
And for your viewing pleasure, here's a dog we saw riding a motorcycle:
Love you all!!
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Incredible times with the Mejudhons!!!
A couple of weeks ago we just spent an incredible day with Drs. Nantachai and Ubolwan at the Bang Saen beach, only 60 kilometers from Bangkok. They picked us up and took us by a place where we could feed monkeys, treated us to an incredible seafood lunch on the water, and we had a wonderful day of complete relaxation (a.k.a. no computer or Thai language study material). Bang Saen is definitely a Thai beach, not a tourist beach, so it is really funny to compare the differences between street vendors at a beach in the states and the street vendor a Bang Saen. In the states, if you wanted something healthy to snack on while at the beach, you would just be out of luck! Ice cream, hamburgers, hotdogs, beer, soda and a couple of good old fried seafood restaurants are the American standard beach-side fare, but Bang Saen is well supplied with tiny single employee stands serving grilled squid, horseshoe crab, shrimp, clams and, of course, fish! You can find some fried fish too, and all the delicious fruit you can handle, but if you were looking for some typical greasy tourist food, well, you won’t find it here! So we spent the day nibbling, reading some non-taxing novels, swimming a bit and Dora even got an hour foot massage for $5! The best rest we have had in years. Thank you so much Drs. Nantachai and Ubolwan!Tuesday, February 9, 2010
Correction to our cell phone number
Our Skype address and Mailing address were correct on the previous email:
- Skype: chrisanddora
- Mailing: Chris and Dora Barbee
- PO Box #144
- Bangkok 10400
- Thailand
We apologize for the misinformation. We are definitely still learning! Love you all!
-Chris and Dora
Monday, February 8, 2010
Thailand Times
So, in the last blog entry, we talked about our friend Pure, who was singing in the KPN Awards (the Thai American Idol). Chris and I got the awesome opportunity to see him a couple of weeks ago at a live broadcast of the KPN Awards, when he sang “I Believe I Can Fly.” Well, Pure had said that if he made it to the final week, he would sing “How Great Thou Art.” Of course he made it (because he’s a great singer), and amazingly Chris and I got to go see it live again last night (with several people from Muang Thai Church). He was true to his word and sang “How Great Thou Art” along with another Christian song (in Thai) called “Land of Love.” It was amazing! He did an incredible job…and then he WON!!! It was awesome because first there were some smaller awards given out, and one of them was the “Friendship Award.” This involved 12 contestants from the last couple of rounds voting for their fellow candidate who they believed to be the best friend to everyone. Pure got that award. What a beautiful witness in his love for his competition! Plus, he received a free motorcycle for that award. Then he won the whole contest, which included $1,000,000 baht (about $30,000 U.S.) and a record deal!!! Chris: "Phom chop thaan khaaw phoot krup." (I like to eat corn (he had just bought some corn from a street vendor))
Teacher: "Khun chop thaan khaaw phoot thiinay ka?" (Where do you like to eat corn?)
Chris: "Phon chop thaan khaaw phoot thii hong naam krup." (I like to eat corn in the bathroom)--he meant to say from a street vendor!
At a restaurant, Chris wanted to order an omelet (the Thai eat omelets all day long, not just for breakfast). The word for omelet is "khayjiow," but neither of us could remember that. The waiter comes to take our order, and Chris asks me what an omelet is called, and I thought it was "khawjay." Chris didn't think that was quite right, but I insisted. So Chris points to the picture of the omelet and says, "Khawjay, khawjay." The man gave him a weird look, so, in a louder voice, Chris said "Khawjay!" The man nodded and walked away. Then we remembered that "khawjay" means "understand." So, Chris was pointing at the picture and loudly saying, "Understand! Understand!"
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Monday, January 11, 2010
First Week in Thailand

Wow! This week has been a complete whirlwind! A week ago this time we were celebrating our commissioning at Hope Springs Community Church in Lexington, KY, and now we are getting physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually adjusted to life in Bangkok, Thailand! It is Monday afternoon right now (middle of the night back home), and Dora and I are glad to say we have survived the past two days without naps!!! YAY!!!
First, we want to thank all our amazing friends for giving so generously of your time and love to us during the last days, weeks, and months of our preparation to leave the states. We feel deeply loved and lifted up in prayers, and we honestly can say that the tough bumps in the road this far would have been impassible mountains without you. We are honored to call all of you friends.
So if you ever doubted that God is real….check this story out!!!!
Hey everyone, this is Dora. I’m writing this part because I like to tell this story!
Well, we had quite an adventure on the way to Thailand. First of all, the night before we were set to fly out, we realized that we lost the letters that Dr. Nantachai had mailed us to get our teaching visas so we could actually stay in Thailand once we arrived. We originally thought that we were supposed to take those letters with us as we went through customs in Thailand. We frantically searched through all of our stuff (thanks for helping, mom!!!) and had Chris’ parents search in North Carolina for hours and couldn’t find them at all. We went through a list of friends that helped us get Dr. Nantachai to call us from Thailand so we could seek his advice. He soon called us and told us that we were supposed to have mailed the letters he sent into the Thai embassy in America to get our visas, so even if we could find the letters, they would not have done us any good. Dr. Nantachai told us that he didn’t think it would be a big deal for us to get in on a tourist visa and not to worry.
So, the next morning we sadly said goodbye to family and friends that had gathered at the airport and got on a plane headed to Memphis. That flight was uneventful. Then, in Memphis, we boarded a plane headed to L.A., which was again, an uneventful flight. When we got to L.A., we had about 2 hours to grab lunch and board our next plane to Taipei. We checked the flight departure screen, and the gate for our flight said “TBT.” We assumed that meant they weren’t announcing a gate yet, so we went and got some lunch, grabbed some ice cream, talked to a couple of people on the phone, and took our sweet time. At about 5 minutes until 1:00 (our flight was at 1:45), we moseyed back over to where we thought our gate might be, and the screen still said “TBT.” We asked someone what that meant, and they replied with, “You’re going to Taiwan? You need to be in the international terminal!” (Some international travelers we are ☺).
We asked how we get there, and they said, “It’s about a 20 minute shuttle ride!” This is the point at which we panicked!! We ran all the way out of that terminal, left the airport completely, and waited for a shuttle. We realized at this point that we still didn’t have boarding passes, and we would have to go through security again because we had left the airport. By the time we caught the shuttle and got to the international terminal, it was about 1:20. We ran to the China Air desk to get our tickets, and they had already closed the desk. We had to ask a janitor to go find the desk attendant to help us. The lady came out and was immediately noticeably mad at us. She told us that she could get us on the plane, but we would not have meals and our bags had already been taken off the plane and would not arrive with us in Bangkok. We agreed to this because knew if we missed our flight we would not only have to sleep in the airport, but we would miss the beginning of language school.
Then she looked at our information again and said, “You have no return ticket from Bangkok. They won’t let you into the country.” We told her we were moving there, and she said, “Without a visa or a return ticket, you won’t be allowed into the country, but that’s not our problem. Good luck.” AHHH!!!! Boarding passes in hand, we took off running for the security checkpoint. Chris told one of the guards that we were in a really big hurry (it was after 1:30 at this point), so the guy let us go in the front of the line. BUT, then Chris was chosen for a random “we need to search you further” full body search, and his bag was chosen for a closer search as well. It was all I could do not to shout, “We don’t have time for this!” but I (thankfully) realized that might look quite suspicious! At long last, they finished and we again took off running toward our gate. Poor Chris was carrying a 50 pound (literally!) carryon and running at full speed!! We actually made it to the gate right at 1:45 (albeit sweaty and probably not smelling great), and they let us board!! Unfortunately we were given seats a few rows apart form each other, but we were just thankful to be on our way to Taipei.
So, the entire way to Taiwan, we were both really worried and prayed a lot about actually making it into Thailand and receiving our baggage too. Surprisingly, they actually gave us both two meals on the flight—God is good! The layover in Taipei was uneventful, then we got on another plane for a 3 ½ hour flight to Bangkok. On that plane we had to fill out a customs form with all of our return flight information, which of course we didn’t have, so we just left that part blank. Once in the airport, we took our passports and our customs forms with sweaty, nervous palms to one of the customs guys, and all he did was look at our passports and customs forms, stamp them, and waved us on through!! He didn’t even ask us one question! Then, to top it all, all four of the bags that we checked back in Lexington made it to Bangkok!! We were so excited! God really took care of us! We actually got a 30-day tourist visa, so we have to leave the country within 30 days, so we’re going to go visit friends in Singapore for a long weekend. We will take Dr. Nantachai’s letters with us to Singapore, get them approved at the Thai embassy there, and will be allowed back into Thailand on teaching visas that will be good for a year!! Easy enough!
Praise God!!!
One tired week!
Chris here again….
So we started language school about 4 hours after getting settled into the church’s apartment Wednesday night (morning…or whatever you call 4 AM!). Thank you again, Dr. Nantachai, for picking us up in the middle of the night at the airport! It truly was God’s providence that we stayed awake and quasi focused Wednesday but we did, and we both really enjoyed the first three days of the school. For the first three days, the school is focused completely on vowel and consonant sounds and clusters and the 5 tones of the Thai language. Dora and I cannot say enough great things about the PILAT (Language acquisition techniques) training that we had in Colorado in November. The techniques that focus on listening before speaking and engaging like a child in the learning process are already coming in handy, and we are more familiar with the sounds that are not in our English tone boxes. Now that we are into the second week of training we are getting slammed by the memorization factor, and are looking at our PILAT notebooks to create a ‘battle plan’ for working through the phrases and vocabulary that we are currently receiving.
I’m almost done sharing about our language learning experience…I promise. But, I just have to brag on Dora for a minute. She is really a motivated language learner, and she is more willing than me to just stick herself out there and ‘give it a shot!’ I’m so proud of her and so motivated by her. I think we are going to make it through this difficult process, but not without some battle scars (and a lot of Thai people laughing at our poor attempts at producing the proper tones!!!) I have had one language victory myself to report: today (1/11/10) my teacher asked me if the word she was using to describe an object was correct or not, and I was able to hear that it was the right syllables but the wrong tones. Praise God!!!
Life with a Thai Family

We might have mentioned that the Mission Society (our sending organization) encouraged us to live with a host family during the initial part of our stay in Thailand in order to be fully immersed in the Thai way of life and culture. We asked Drs. Nantachai and Ubolwan (his wife and fellow pastor/missionary) to help us find a host family, and did they ever! We are staying, not with a family from the church, but with a Buddhist family that is high in the government of Thailand! We have to admit, this gave us some anxiety (none that could rival our anxieties associated with arrival in the country!), but our anxiety was quickly dispelled when we met this warm family. Though both parents work full-time, they have a maid, whom they love as a family member, that cares for the children and the house so they can all enjoy each other’s company in the evening. This family has graciously provided us with a very comfortable room, breakfast and dinner daily, and a lot of good times. Saturday, they took us on a tour of the extremes of Bangkok. We saw the 'Beverly Hills' of Bangkok, the shopping mecca near the Siam Sky train station, home of Hard Rock CafĂ© and four beautiful malls that put all of our shopping areas to shame. Then we went to a Thai tourist spot, and I really mean Thai; we saw like two Farang’s (foreigners) all afternoon. It was a little island in the middle of the Chao Praya River, the main artery through Bangkok, where they make clay pottery and crazy egg yolk and sugar Thai desserts! The Thai have a way to make all food beautiful. Pretty tasty, too! All the homes ‘on’ the island were traditional Thai stilted homes on the riverbank. Surprisingly most of them had NO land access, so the community visits with each other, shops, and everything else, by boat on the river and the canals.
Some interesting discoveries and/or mistakes we’ve made so far:
They sell Pringles here! They even have most of the flavors we have in the States, along with some new ones as well—seaweed, soft shell crab, and grilled shrimp to name a few!
After we bought an umbrella from a street vendor, Dora should have said “khopkhun ka” (thank you). Instead, she said “kha nam pung” (bread). Oops!
We’ve both been doing a really good job with taking off our shoes as we enter the host family’s home. However, the other day Dora wanted to wear some shoes that were already up our bedroom when she was heading outside. So without thinking, she just wore the shoes from upstairs through the house outside. The host family didn’t say anything, but later we read that wearing shoes in the house is seen as totally disgusting! She felt terrible and later apologized!
They have a really cute channel on TV called the “Panda Channel.” It’s a camera filming a family of pandas living in the Chiang Mai Zoo 24 hours a day! It’s actually really cute because there is a baby panda at the zoo who loves to play!
Thailand is seeing the beauty of the Lord through their own people!!!
I have to end the blog with this story. It starts a year and a half ago when we visited Thailand and went with Drs. Nantachai and Ubolwan Mejudhon to their ministry site in Roi Et, Northeast Thailand. There, we met a high school student, nicknamed Pure, in the village of Banon who was an amazing singer. There is a picture of Pure and I singing and playing together (respectively) for the worship service in Banon. Since graduating high school Pure received a scholarship to a performing arts school in Bangkok, and the Medjudhon’s ministry is helping him by allowing him to live in the home church in Bangkok. Pure has flourished in Bangkok this year and has become an active member of the Muang Thai Church and a growing believer!
A couple of months ago, we were sent a video of Pure performing with an acting company at his school, which made our hearts jump for joy to see a young man from the Esarn region performing, but nothing could prepare us for what Pure has accomplished this fall…When we arrived in Thailand we received word that Pure was in the finals for Thailand’s version of American Idol, the KPN Awards! Not only that, but Pure has been favored to be one of the top three contestants in the Awards!!! The excitement of this opportunity is being felt all around the Christian community as Pure is using his moment of stardom to sing songs about Jesus and demonstrate His love through his attitude. Dora and I stayed up late on Saturday night to watch the 3-hour KPN Awards so that we could see him perform on this week’s show. It is only hearsay, but Dr. Ubolwan told us that Pure has turned down an agent because the agent would prevent Him from singing in church. Please take a minute to enjoy Pure’s worship to God. We can all take joy as we watch God move!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cKWpc9SK2gU
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
November out in Colorado for Language Training

Greetings from Palmer Lake, CO!
This is Dora! We are here at Mission Training International attending the PILAT training (Program in Language Acquisition Techniques). In fact, that is where this picture was taken. BEAUTIFUL!!! This includes lots work on phonetics (we do drills on various consonant and vowel sounds that don’t occur in the English language) as well as utilizing various language learning techniques in the classroom. We have also been put into various language groups and learning Russian, Mandarin, Hindi, Vietnamese, and French. Chris has been working on Russian and I have been working on Mandarin. Why, you may ask, are we working on languages that we will not need in Thailand? We’re actually focusing on the techniques of language learning and using these various languages to practice these techniques. It’s been really fun! There are about 35 other missionaries here and it’s been great getting to know some of them. Almost every missionary is going to a different country, and it’s been so cool to hear about what God is doing all over the world!
Last Month Recap-Getting Vulnerable
The last month has been a bit hectic for us! As you probably already know, around the middle of October, we went out to Washington to speak at a couple of churches, Christ United Protestant Church in Richland, WA, and Woodville Community United Methodist Church in Woodinville (just ohttp://www.blogger.com/img/blank.gifutside of Seattle). We had a blast! We hung out in Richland for a couple of days with a great couple (I actually got to go on a women’s retreat), and we spoke that morning at both services at CUP (our newest supporting church)! Then, they had a reception during which people could ask us questions about our future ministry. This church has been so good to us and the people are so fun to be with! We’re blessed!
Next, we headed to Portland, Oregon for a couple of days and spent some time with some friends from college, then on up to Seattle for a five-day GIC (Global Impact Celebration) at Woodinville Community UMC. It was an amazing time to connect with the congregation of that church as well as many other missionaries serving all over the world. Early in this GIC we sat down with all the missionaries (local, national, and international), and shared parts of our stories. It was incredible because the more we got comfortable with each other the more we were able to share our concerns and struggles. An incredible vulnerability was birthed there, which has changed the way we are attempting to communicate, even with acquaintances and strangers. We both had the opportunity to speak at the men’s and women’s breakfasts (respectively), which was a huge blessing. Due to our previous session with all the missionaries sharing together, both took this as a chance to be very vulnerable and talk about the issues that we’re struggling with. I specifically talked about how I don’t feel very “missionary-like”—I mean, missionaries are supposed to have it all together and be super connected with God all the time, right? They’re supposed to be the most spiritual among us, aren’t they? God can work with all of us! Especially those like me that don’t have it all together!!!
The Kentucky Whirlwind
When we returned from Washington, we spent two weeks back in Kentucky trying to get stuff packed up in our house (we were partially successful) and hanging out with folks in the Lexington area. We did end up selling both of our cars, so that’s a huge praise!!
What's to Come:
The next couple of weeks…We will spend the first half of Thanksgiving week with some friends out here in Colorado Springs, and then we are renting a car to drive to Albuquerque, NM to have Thanksgiving with Chris’ great aunt Frances. Then, we will return to MTI on November 30 to begin another 3-week training session. This next training is called SPLICE (Spiritual, Personal, Lifestyle, Interpersonal, Culture, Endure/Enjoy). It’s basically a cross-cultural training on how to survive as a missionary in another country. After that training, we will fly back to Kentucky, pack up most of our furniture, and drive a U-Haul to North Carolina to spend Christmas with Chris’ side of the family. Then, we will head back to KY to wrap up the last few details and say goodbye to our friends and family there. As soon as our flight details are locked in, we will share those with all of you in case you are in the Lexington area and want to send us off (which we would love!). God bless you all and we love you!!
-Dora
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
The Last Minute Preparations
GREAT NEWS!
Hey everybody, Chris here!!! The past month and a half since our last blog entry has been an interesting one. Dora and I have been substitute teaching almost every day. Well, actually, Dora has been called every day for jobs, since she is a certified teacher in Fayette County, while I have been teaching saxophone 2 ½ days a week and looking on jealously! J In addition to teaching, we have been running around to several more churches to share God’s story in Thailand and to raise the remaining funds, and we have some amazing news to report…through the generous giving of so many of you, we now have 91% of our required funding pledged or received in order to depart for Thailand!!! Praise God and thank you all so very much. That leap of faith, mentioned in the last blog entry, of needing 80% of our funds by the beginning of November in order to attend our Colorado training was exceeded dramatically by the beginning of October. We learn more about trusting God’s promises every day!
Where we go from here:
That all means that we can attend our training from November 9th-December 18th. We’re also now in the process of confirming our funds and preparing to take another leap of faith to buy our tickets to Thailand for early January. We need to reach 100% in donations and pledges in order to hop on that plane, but we believe that God intends for us to be in Bangkok before January 14th so we can start language school at the beginning of their spring term. We really must begin in January if we stand any chance of being prepared to move into our new home in the Roi Et province for the beginning of their school year in May. However, through our Brazil training, we have come to grasp the fact that if we have any hopes of being effective communicators in the Northeast, we have to spend the time for language training in Bangkok. So, we will stay in Bangkok longer than 4 months if necessary to have a functional grasp on the Thai language. If you have felt lead to partner with us in this ministry in Thailand and have been postponing joining us for any reason, we would humbly ask you to please consider doing so before the end of 2009 so we will have the funds necessary to depart on time.
Global Impact Celebrations!
We promise that we will write about the specifics of our final training in Colorado as the training commences next month, but currently, I am writing you all from Washington State, where Dora and I have been flown in by Woodinville Community United Methodist Church (in the city of Woodinville near Seattle) to attend their Global Impact Celebration. While we are here we are getting a chance to reconnect with an amazing church in the Tri-cities area of eastern Washington that is partnering with us, and to see some dear friends in the Portland area. These GIC events are like ‘Mission Conferences on Steroids’ to quote Dick McClain the Mission Society’s new president. GIC’s are 5 days of meeting with different members and groups within the church to discuss the church’s vision for missions and to help all the members get involved with it. It also gives us the opportunity to personally share our vision for ministry in Thailand with lots of people in small group settings, so that many members of the church are involved in the process of discerning the possibility of a partnership between the church and our ministry. We had such an amazing time in February at the GIC at Central United Protestant church in Richland, Washington, that we seized the opportunity to travel back from Seattle to see our new friends in eastern Washington before returning to Woodinville Community Church for their GIC.
The difficulty of goodbyes:
We will share more about this experience out in Washington and Oregon next month, but I wanted to finish this entry by sharing what’s been on my heart so heavily recently. We have begun the process of saying many of our goodbyes, realizing now that with such limited time in the states (and even more limited time in Kentucky and North Carolina) we can’t always say, “We will see you next time!” because that ‘next time’ may be years away. Dora and I have always been crazy travelers, and neither of us have had a difficult time leaving home before, but this is a whole new situation, and is stirring very new and difficult emotions for us both. I just taught my last saxophone lessons to each of my students this past week, and it was so much more difficult than I expected it to be. I really don’t feel like I know how to say goodbye to friends (and that includes my students) when I know we can stay in touch, but I very well may not see them for years. I know there isn’t an easy answer to this struggle, but please pray for both of us as we work through this together. This opportunity is so bitter sweet!!!
We love you all so dearly. Thank you for your support. Stay tuned since Dora is going to write the blog this next month!

